What Should They Wear? Choosing Clothing for a Loved One’s Final Farewell

When someone we love passes away, the smallest decisions can feel overwhelming—like choosing what they should wear for their final goodbye. Traditionally, people were dressed in their “Sunday best”—a formal suit or dress that may not have truly represented who they were. Today, there’s more freedom and more room for meaning.

Whether you’re planning a burial, cremation, or viewing, the clothing you choose can be a way to honor your loved one’s identity, personality, and the life they lived.

suit and tie — A final tribute that reflects who we were—marked by serenity, shaped by care, and held in timeless memory.

The End of ‘Sunday Best’

In the past, formal attire was the default. Regardless of personal style, most were buried in their best suit, tie, or dress—something chosen more for appearances than for emotional significance.

But times have changed. More and more families are opting for something different—something personal.

Make It Personal

You might choose a cozy sweater they wore every Sunday morning, a graphic tee from a concert they loved, or even a favorite pair of jeans. What matters is how that clothing makes you feel and what it says about the person you’re honoring.

Was it a gift from someone special?
Did they wear it so often it became part of how you remember them?
There’s no wrong answer. Just the one that feels right.

In every careful choice, a quiet act of love, dressing them not just for farewell, but in honor of all they were.

A Tribute Through Comfort or Character

Choosing a beloved, well-worn piece of clothing may seem informal, but for many, it feels more meaningful. If they were happiest in a hoodie and sneakers, or always wore their team’s jersey—why not let them say goodbye just like that?
It’s not about dress codes, it’s about memories.

Soft hands, steady heart—choosing what speaks for a life, when words no longer can.

Involving Family and Honoring Traditions

If you’re not sure what to choose, invite family members to share their ideas. A collective decision can help everyone feel involved and supported. Some families even set out multiple pieces during a viewing or memorial—a visual reminder of different facets of their loved one’s life.

Whatever You Choose, Let It Reflect Love

There’s no one “right” way to do this. Choose what brings comfort, tells a story, and feels true to who they were. Whether that’s a tailored suit or a soft, worn t-shirt—it’s a powerful way to honor their life.

Need Help with Memorial Planning?

At Anubis Cremations, we’re here to help you navigate these personal choices with care and compassion. Whether you’re planning a funeral, cremation, or celebration of life, we’ll walk beside you.

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