Jewish Funeral Traditions: What to Expect and How to Honor Them

Jewish Funeral Traditions: What to Expect and How to Honor Them

No two funeral traditions are the same—and Jewish funerals, rich in ritual and respect, reflect profound cultural values. In this post, we’ll walk you through what typically happens in a Jewish funeral, from preparation to mourning, so you can better understand—and honor—your loved one’s heritage.

According to the Pew Research Center, there are approximately 7.5 million Jews living in the United States, which accounts for about 2.4% of the total U.S. population as of 2024. While small in number, the Jewish community has a profound cultural and historical impact in American society. Understanding Jewish funeral customs is not only a sign of respect, but also a way to honor the depth and continuity of Jewish life and mourning practices.

With dignity and devotion, the journey from life to memory begins.

Purifying and Preparing the Body (Taharah & Tachrichim)

Before the funeral service, a sacred ritual called Taharah takes place. The Chevra Kadisha (holy burial society) cleanses the body, washes it, and dresses it according to tradition.

Afterward, the deceased is wrapped in simple white garments called Tachrichim, symbolizing purity and equality in death.

Burial Timing & Respect (Shemira & 24‑Hour Rule)

Jewish law typically calls for burial within 24 hours of death. This honors the body (Kavod HaMet) and starts the mourning process promptly. Meanwhile, a practice called Shemira ensures the body is never left alone, accompanied by recitation of psalms,

The Funeral Service (Levayah)

The funeral — known as the Levayah — is usually a short ceremony held at a funeral home, synagogue, or graveside. It begins with prayers and psalms, followed by a eulogy (hesped), and concludes with Keriah, the ritual tearing of a garment to express grief. Mourners may participate in filling the grave with soil — an act of final respect.

Surrounded by loved ones, a life is honored the Jewish way—through presence, prayer, and peace.

Role of the Casket

Jewish tradition prefers a plain wooden casket (or none at all, if allowed), usually made of natural, unfinished wood. This reflects humility and the eventual return “to dust”. Embalming is generally prohibited unless legally required.

Cremation in the Jewish Context

• Orthodox Judaism generally prohibits cremation, believing burial in the earth preserves the body for resurrection.
• Reform and some Conservative communities may allow cremation as a personal choice, and Reform rabbis may officiate when it brings comfort.

What About Water Cremation (Aquamation)?

While water cremation—also known as aquamation—is gaining popularity as an eco-friendly alternative to flame cremation, it is not currently recognized or practiced within mainstream Jewish traditions. Orthodox and Conservative Judaism generally prohibit cremation in any form. Reform Judaism, while more flexible and open to individual choice, has not formally addressed aquamation in its guidelines. If you’re considering this method, it’s best to consult with a rabbi familiar with your denomination’s views.

Mourning Period (Shiva & Beyond)

Immediately after burial, close relatives enter Aninut (shock period) and then Shiva, a seven-day mourning period at home. Traditions include:

• Sitting on low stools, covering mirrors
• Reciting Kaddish and welcoming visitors to comfort the mourners.

The mourning continues with Sheloshim (30 days) and up to a twelve-month period for a parent’s passing.

During Shiva, the presence of loved ones becomes a silent prayer of comfort, memory, and togetherness.

How to Respect Jewish Practices

1. Timing: If burial within 24 hours isn’t possible (e.g., for travel), a short delay is acceptable.
2. Cremation: Talk with a rabbi early; views differ by denomination.
3. Community support: Attending Shiva, bringing food, refraining from greetings unless initiated—these are valued acts of comfort.

How Anubis Supports the Jewish Community

Jewish funeral customs—simple, dignified, and deeply respectful—focus on honoring the person, supporting the grieving, and reaffirming community. At Anubis Cremations, we deeply respect these traditions and provide tailored support—whether for traditional burials, cremation, or hybrid arrangements.

We understand that navigating these decisions can be emotional and complex, especially when honoring religious values. That’s why we work closely with families—and, when requested, with rabbis—to ensure every arrangement aligns with your wishes and your loved one’s heritage. If you are planning a Jewish funeral or have questions about the process, please don’t hesitate to contact us:

-Los Angeles: (323) 644-3323
-Palm Springs: (760) 804-3323
-Email: info@anubiscremations.com

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